You ever hear the quote
"If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything"
So let me ask you.
What do you stand for?
What are your beliefs?
What are you values?
What is your code?
What is your mission?
If you are sitting there struggling to answer these questions. I highly..... HIGHLY. suggest you figure it out.
You don't have to have completely different values and beliefs than other people. It is ok to stand for the same things as someone that you like, as well as some people that you don't like.
But, what is it that you stand for?
I am not going to ask you every question in the book to help you figure this