You be you, leave the rest alone.

It's so hard to find your place in a world that tells you that you need to look a certain way. Dress a certain way, speak a certain way, act a certain way.


When you finally find yourself, and you act accordingly to what feels right to you. You are then broken down, and ostracized because you are not conforming to the pre-programmed narrative.


I know even I sit here, and share with you ideas of how to act differently, or how to change into something you are not.


Frankly, you could love who you are and where you are in life right now, and that is honestly so amazing.


When you find yourself, find your fit, are truly, and authentically you. There is nothing better to strive for.


We should all work towards building our lives according to what OUR version of success is.


It might not be having millions of dollars.

It might not be having a mansion, or having tons of toys.

It might not be getting married, or having kids.


It could be a one bedroom shack.

It could be working everyday at a job because you love it.

It could be being single, and maybe having some animals as your companions.


What I am saying is. 1. You shouldn't be judging other people for who they are or where they are in life because it's not what You would want. and 2. You shouldn't worry about what other people think about You. How weird you are, how dorky you can be, or even how boring they think you are.


Each and everyone of us is just trying to survive in this world the best we can.


Not one of us has a secret formula to make everything better, or give us everything we ever want.


No one is more qualified to tell you what to do than you.


If however, someday down the road you feel like you want more out of life. You feel like you need to take more risks, or change direction completely, or just keep things fresh.


You can do that too. You can be completely happy right now, but in ten years want something completely different.


That is ok.


When that time comes I will be here. I'm here for you always. Whether you need a helping hand, a shoulder to cry on, a swift kick in the ass, or a sympathetic ear. I'm here.


I am also here to tell you that you don't need to fit into this world.


You need to be you.


The rest will sort itself out. Trust me.



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